I love to invite family and friends over to my home. Over the years, we all got assigned a holiday. I got New Years Day. I don’t like to go out New Years’ Eve, I spend the night with my mom and who ever else wants to drop by. We order in and drink champagne and I get to watch as many Twilight Zones episodes as I can before someone starts complaining. I start planning for New Years’ Day around now. I start shopping around for sales on everything from paper plates and napkins, cups …..canned goods too….peanuts, beans, artichokes, olives, roasted peppers..and champagne…soda…water.. I always look for filet mignon on special…..the best buy I think, there is no waste, so easy to prepare and everyone seems to like it. I get a 5 lb one and freeze it…..frozen raw shrimps too…..always a sale just have to keep a sharp eye out. A day before the party I get the fresh vegtables, salad stuff, bread and cold cuts and cheese.
So you might ask…..why entertain at home?
It is an opportunity to nurture relationships. When you invite guests into your home, you are inviting them into your personal space and offering them an invitation to connect with you and vice versa.
It is a way for you to socialize with family and friends whenever you want to…..you can make it happen.
It is an economical alternative to hosting a party in a public venue. Control costs by setting a time, style and menu that fits your budget.
It is good for you (and your guests). It is a proven fact that people who socialize more are healthier mentally, emotionally and physically than those who do not. Laughter is good medicine…..so have some fun.
It is a liberating experience to have a successful party in your home. You have complete control and creative license over all aspects of your party. It also builds your self confidence as you realize that you can be a great host.
It is fulfilling and satisfying to experience partying with a purpose – nurturing relationships and forging new ones – what a fun way to enrich your lifestyle.
13 days before Christmas!
My daughter Vera, passed this book to me and I just love it….I hope you do too.