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Show Me The Mercy

It’s taken me a couple of trips around the mountain, but I finally know that I can’t live in peace, if  I’m mad at someone or upset about something.  Another thing I’ve learned is that peace comes hand in hand with mercy.  So if I want it, I am going to have to give it.

I have to keep reminding myself that love is a decision…..pretty easy to love people who give me my way…..but the ones that don’t..well, let’s say I’m working on loving them  a little every day.  Then there are the things I can’t change, like my hair.  I’ve had to make peace with my curly hair…..oh, I can get it straightened and done all fancy….but I know it’ll always be curly and at any given moment it will break out and do something crazy.  I’ve gotten over it, thank God.  So I try to accept myself and  those around me…not so fast to have an opinion on something I have no responsiblity for……no judgement – not very easy – but I try to catch myself when I get catty thoughts in my head.  Sometimes it works – sometimes, it does not.  But I keep on trying.

Good news is that mercy and grace are available to us everyday -we all get to start each day with a whole cup full.  Apply where needed all day long.

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And The Verdict Is

I watched the Casey Anthony trail over the weekend.  I never really watch these reality trials, ever, but for some reason  it caught my attention.

The first one to plead his case was the prosecutor.  The prosecutor went on about so many items, so many reasons, why and how Casey killed her daughter.  She did it I thought, she clearly did it.  No way, she did not do it.  The prosecutor really stated a good case for her guilt.  OK, now the defense’s turn.  The defense rebuts  everything the prosecutor said, not defending Casey’s action as she partied after her daughter’s disappearance, he ( defense attorney) actually used the word slut in referencing Casey.  Wow, I thought he is being blunt and honest.  Then he began to disect the proseutor’s evidence, and the prosecutor’s theory of  Caylee’s murder.  I thought, if I was on the jury I would have a problem now, because now I rethought the whole idea of her guilt. I thought maybe there is more and something is missing.

I realized at that moment that it must be  hard  to be  a juror.    Especially when it entails the death penalty.  How awfully sure you would have to be of the person’s guilt, you would need some reason, anything, something you can reasonably sink your teeth in.

Guess what, jurors are  human, without any ability to really know what is true and, as I heard, they followed the letter of the law, although sometimes the laws letters  just don’t make sense.

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Dining

Terrific 10 Rub

Spicy ChipotleTerrific 10 Rub?  What does this mean?  Well this is a combination of 10 spices that you can rub on meats.  Store it and it can last 6 months.

Work: 10 minutes
Total: 10 minutes

Ingredients
2 1/2 tablespoons paprika
2 1/2 teaspoons ground black pepper
7 tablespoons packed light brown sugar
2 1/2 tablespoon kosher salt
1 1/4 teaspoons celery salt
2 1/2 teaspoons garlic powder
5 teaspoons dry mustard
5 teaspoons ground cumin
5 teaspoons chili powder
1 1/4 teaspoons cayenne pepper

Directions
Combine all ingredients, making sure brown sugar is evenly distributed. Store in an airtight container for up to 6 months. Makes 1 1/4 cups.

Per teaspoon: 10 calories, 1g total fat, 0g sat fat, 278mg sodium, 2g carbs, 0g chol, 0g protein, 0g fiber

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source: ladies home journal